You don't have to make a decision on any particular number date.
You can be dating six or eight people at a time, getting to know each of them.
Some of them will "drop off" naturally as one or both of you realize you are not a good match.
It's all about understanding the law of attraction. Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.
If you live in fear and insecurity, you are going to meet someone exactly like you.
Part of working on your inside is going out and meeting lots of people.
Giving different types of people a chance on dates will help you to define who you really are and what you really want from a partner.
A lot of women have a mental list of "musts" for the men and women they want to meet and date.
Sometimes, what we think we want (or don't want) may not be so easily determined in one date.
So it's time to realize that you don't have to make up your mind about someone you meet on date number one.
I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.
While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single. So many people date "comfortably"; they keep seeing people who are nice, but they never date anyone who really excites them.
I even think that dating many people might be one of the best ways to find the one person you are really looking to find. They go out with whoever happens to cross their path and then don't look any further.
This person is fine, so there's no need to cast around for others, right? While you may need to do a little more leg work, and while it may require going on a lot more dates, it is absolutely worth it to get uncomfortable and to leave your dating comfort zone. Meeting and attracting amazing men and women happens to those who have an "abundance mindset." When you develop an abundance mindset, you see that the people who come into your life are ones to whom you are very attracted.